See you in the funny papers!

Huh? I don't get it. Maybe I need to have my funny bone checked. But I appreciate this cartoon because it raises the question I hear from many people: So what's the difference between a coaching session and just a conversation with a friend or family member?

When it comes to the loved ones in your life, these people probably really do care about you and want the best for you. And sure, they'll listen to your problems and offer opinions about what you should do. But whether they admit it or not, these people also have an agenda. An agenda that includes maintaining their relationship with you. An agenda that makes sure THEIR needs get met along with yours. It's a natural (and normal) part of these types of relationships.

But a life coaching relationship is different. A coactive life coach has no "agenda" when interacting with you. The agenda comes from you, the client. A coach listens with an open heart, and asks intensely curious questions that get you looking in places you may never have considered before. A coach creates an expansive, open, and supportive environment that encourages you to try new things, play with different perspectives, and really get connected with where you are in your life RIGHT NOW.

In short, a life coach cares for you and your dreams...even when it might seem no one else does.